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Sup slim.. now I am a fem dude who loves who I am but can't get anyone else to love me. Why is it that dudes over look us fem dudes. We are some of the greatest lovers but never given the time of day. Hell if you know anyone looking tell them to holla.

SLIM RESPONDS:personally i think fem dudes are getn hated on cause most of the tops wanna get fucked themselves these days. have u tried hanging around the prisons waitin for guys to be released..

Sup slim, so there was this guy at the gym I go to and for months we would alway look at each other. I'd tried to get a sneak peak at him, but every time our eyes would meet. Then we just look at each other for a few secs. On and on it goes. Haven't seen him for a while, so my question is what should I do in case I see him again of if this happens with someone esle? what do I say? I'm kind of shy, and I like dude who are muscular so I don't wanna get my ass beat if im wrong about them.

SLIM RESPONDS:ask the next 1 u lock eyes with if he can spot u while u lift. thats a start..follow ya instincts, keep lookin at his dick ery chance u get..if he sees u n starts to get hard..on to the showers

Hey, I am a 18 V , 5'11 weight 148p and but can't seem to get a guy, I get scare when guys come up to me. What should I do to get over this fear and shyness?

SLIM RESPONDS: thats easy..jus create a online profile saying u n search of a dominate dude..who will grab u up n take ya booty..S&M works well with the shy type

Im dating a btm but he way more masc then me..he a dl dude n i be fukkn the shit outta him. And my dik 11" hard..no bullshit. But he dont use enemas..so when i say i be fukkn da shit outta him..thas jus wat i b doin, i asked him to do it b4 but he was like he not puttn nuthn plastic n his ass like a bitch wud. I know u mite b like..jus stop fukkn da nigga..but um..no direspect..u aint seen this nigga..he hot 2 def n he n the rap industry..thas all ima say..now..wat do i do 2 get this nigga 2 clean..o n did i say we fuk RAW.. yea cause like 2 feel the dick..not a condom.

SLIM RESPONDS:WOW!! does it make me a freak that ya question actually made ma dick hard?? I know getn shittd on is nasty..but i mean would u not fuk NELLY cause u had 2 clean ya dick afta..hmmm i dont know..i gotta survey that 1..but yea son..i actually dont have an answer on that 1.u gotta decide if you gon risk ya health over the thrill..ya feel me. Your choice but always best to play safe.

My shawty n i have been having sex like 5 times a day ery day ery since i moved n 2 months ago.n seriously i feel like im running outta creativity wit my fuk game..wat shud i do..i dont want him to think i dont like da sex or ima liteweight ..his ass is niceee.but wat shud i do??

SLIM RESPONDS:buy sum toys..get a couple nice dildos..different sizes n shapes. surprise him..slow fuk him with the toys til u get him open..then beat his shit wit the biggest 1 til he goes over the edge..if u do it rite..(smoke 1st if u smoke) not only will he luv it past his limits..but he will also wake up the next day wanting 2 rest dat hole 4 a couple days..lol

Whats the deal with this ankle socks thing..im seeing in all ya vids..the bottoms seem 2 have them on..is that coincidence or on purpose

SLIM RESPONDS: Definately on purpose.. have a white ankle sock fetish..all kinds..shit jus makes my dick harder when shawties have em on..n i hate feet..so they perfect

sup nigga..i actually know u..and i know u dont escort. u seem to be against it or sumthn..n i been escorting secretly for as long as i've known u son but sup nigga..i actually know u..and i know u dont escort. u seem to be against it or sumthn..n i been escorting secretly for as long as i've known u son but didnt tell u cause i dont know if u gon still b cool wid me..

SLIM RESPONDS:uhhh nigga..matta fact..lemme jus put ya initial up "B" lol..i've known u been escortin b4 we even chilled. how u get bread is how u get bread..iite here's da deal on y i dont escort..n NO I DONT HAVE NUTHN AGAINST IT!!! I jus dont do it cause i do PORN. If i go to ca client, they expect slimthug to show up..thas 2 much pressure 4 me n i dont know wats on the other side of that door. My dick has a mind of it's own..in porn, im guaranteed that the person wil (at least) have sum kinda good looks about him. That helps me become SLIMTHUG..if my dick is completely turned off at 1st sight..all the $ and viagra n the world cant turn it back on..so i dont escort..plus there aint no retirement plan..lol

Yo Slim, I just need to ask, Ive been seeing Jovonnie wearin these tricked out accessories in his vids lately. I just need to know wear he gets them from exspecially that braclet/wristband wit the jamaican colors can u ask how i can find them?

SLIM RESPONDS:Canal Street..lmao..nahhh jus fukkn wid u homie..Shout out to dat nigga rite?? i dont think nobody fukkn wit his swag on cam rite now..he got a fan page on DP, so u can send ya question there n DP will get n touch wid him to respond to his page..iite..(still crackn da fuk up at the "canal street) lol

My question is explicit yo. What's the freakiest encounter you've had? Off-camera.

SLIM RESPONDS:none ya biznes..lol nahh jus fukkn wid ya..but yea..actually i jus recently did the freakiest thing i've ever done in life for sum1 who dereved it..but i will NEVA tell!!...lol

Yo, im a real nigga son, feel me? Got a girl, but on the low im thinkin about niggas and shit. I already know I cant keep a relationship wit her cause that aint 100 u feel me? Whats good, whats your thoughts on it yo?

SLIM RESPONDS:you sound like a real nigga son..yur doing exactly wat real NIGGAZ do.thoughts on it r..jus hurry up n become a real MAN. If your girl aint n love with u yet..end it ma dude..do yall eva think about the girl yall fukkn..every single dl situation ends..and it ends badly son..we, (gay dudes) talk bout yall 2 each other..we know who u r..we discuss wat u do sexually and how funny it is that u think we dont know..(jus keepn it hunnet wid u)..your girl eventually finds out (i mean they got like a billion survey n books out bout yall) n bcause u broke her heart..she puts ya shit out there. I know i mite seem like im comin hard at u son..but u a "REAL NIGGA" son..u can take it..break it off..do ya lil DL shit while u single

yo slim I have a Major problem I've been with my shorty for about 7 years everything is cool we have a house & a son (long story). When we first met he knew I was a top & he's vers. I've never been fucked before & all of a sudden he wants to fuck me. We get into fights because I'm not open to that. What can I do to get him off my back (lol) because it's not going to happen. I don't want to lose him but I don't want to get fucked either. HELP

SLIM RESPONDS:which is more important to you..staying a total top..or loving and being loved by him for another 7yrs..once u answer that, u have answered your own question son

i'm a DL dude im in college and i jus wanna know what would you do if every dude u worked up the courage to talk to talk to turned u down, and u are already a shy guy. see im always the one doing the perusing and im never the one pursued, today my homeboy said these two females made a bet to see who would be the 1st to get him damn ive never had that happen to man. sometimes it feels like the only ppl that talk to me only wanna fuck cuz all they c is my booty. i jus need advise on how to approach a guy and how can i tell if a guy i c is gay/bi?

SLIM RESPONDS:honestly son..if u n college and on the dl..wat exactly are u expecting to happen besides sex wit a dude. I dont know how u shy but u r the persuant..makes no sense. Focus on ya studies..if u not ready to come out the closet, u gotta accept that the dll lifestyle comes wit few choices..and 99.9% of those choices wil be about your booty. and i dont know how to tell u f i guy is gay anymore..cause 2 many dudes r embracing this DL thing like it government cheese.

i never had a 3some and my birthday is comeing up my boyfirend wants to try it so can you tell me is it fun?

SLIM RESPONDS:its a bad idea..trust me..DON'T DO IT!! U really should spend it 2gether (just u 2) but if u really feelin freaky, try another couple..the sex is betta cause no 1 is eva left out and no matta how good the fucking..erybody already got a man..and aint tryna get yours

Hey SlimThug, I'm ina bit of a delema. I'm a young fresh and green 19 year old. Most say I'm fine and I've managed to keep my V card, with the help of dawg pound of course lol. Now my mind is focused on my money and getting my paper. I know exactly what I'm looking for but i don't know where to find it. and with me working so hard on my dreams I'm begining to wonder if i'll ever find my black or latino military top with just as big a brain to match a big dick who has poltical aspirations and is just as power hungry as me.He's also taller than my 5'7. I don't want to waste time with lames, dumb-asses or people who don't know what they want out of life. So were would I begin looking. I be damned if I just ket any mofo up in me...am I being too picky my friends think so...Hell and I don't won't to wake up one day and be old and realize I've been on a wild goose chase

SLIM RESPONDS:if u cute..email me ya pics..im single now. Lol. if that dont work..ur 19..focus on the next level of ya life, not the next dick..u wont b waking up old anytime soon shawty

there's a real cute guy from school that i secretly like. he seems really cool and i think he's straight. but he's always staring at me or looking my way when he get the chance and i'm not looking. do you think he's trying to figure me out, or do you think he may actually like me? we were semialone at one point but there was nothing there. we never sayed one word to each other. i couldnt even look his way. what you think?

SLIM RESPONDS:what r u waitn 4. this could go on 4ever and never climax unless sum1 mans up. B4 your next big test, ask him to b ya study partner..plenty of liquor is a good ice-breaker..lol

Slim, I just wanna ask. Is it really you answering these questions, or is it just some nigga who works for Dawgpound? LOL. If it is really you, I just wanna say, you are deep as hell! Thanks for all the advice you give to the fellas.

SLIM RESPONDS:..thx ma dude..yea its genuinely me..i think maybe i am goin too deep tho..my boss gave me a lil reminder bout humor..lol but yea son,,its my pleasure to listen, and my obligation to answer. I cant claim to be the best at wat i do..n not even know how to communicate it

I have not been with a guy in years. How can I get my self ready for dick again?

SLIM RESPONDS:Practice makes perfect..finger yaself..then try anal beads..work ya way up to a small dildo, then so on and so on..or jus randonly fuk small dick niqqas n work ya way up

Whassup SlimThug, I have seen you in a lot of movies and I would like to let you know that I am huge fans of your.....But I would like to know why don't you let people taste your nut?

SLIM RESPONDS:cause i dont want maffukaz sayin im da baby daddy 8mths lata..

Hey Slim, Thanks for turnining me on to Anal Ease. I looked on the internet and got information. It appears that this lube or spray nums the sphinter to relax you for the penetration. As I stated in my previous question, my friend has a big dick which I can take it's when he's all in me that I want to relax and get fucked like you ram fuck Felony. I used rush years ago which made me feel like I couldn't get enough of a guy fucking me with a big dick. I stopped because I don't like to inhale drugs and it made my heart beat fast. What about another way to relax the colon? I'm ok with getting it in.

SLIM RESPONDS:UHHH..u cant jus look it up on the net son..u actually gotta purchase andd use it for it to work. I cant get u another method if u havent tried the 1 i already gave u

Slim, What's the best way 4 a dude to measure how thick his dick is? How thick is yours - cuz that's the perfect size in my book!

SLIM RESPONDS:when its full hard..wrap a string around it and mark the spots where the string meets. then measure from mark 2 mark..i think im like 5

slimthug which is your second best bottom? i know that you said you boyfriend was the best for you?

SLIM RESPONDS:Hands down..STASH was..tha niqqa make ya toes curl when u nut

Hey Slim, I am in love with a married guy i have been with for 2 years now, problem is that now that he brung his family to the states, we hardly see each other, meanwhile i am horny as hell its been 3 months, i am ready bout to explode, what should i do?

SLIM RESPONDS:tell him, if nuthn changes, then u fuck sum1 else

Aye Slim, I've Only Been With 3 Diffrent Guys, But They Where Packin, My Booty Hole Is Tight, But Every Now And Then I Have Little Accidents In My Boxers, What Can I Do To Tighten Up My Ass Like It Was Before?

SLIM RESPONDS:try not to eat b4 sex..and after sex for at least an hr til u get used to the sex. Use fleet b4 and after sex..dilute the solution both time..meaning half solution half water. Aslo try bathing wit epson salt and lemon juice n the water..if u have to go out immediately after sex shawty plug ya hole wit tissue n wear tite fitted underwear jus in case!! n drink ots of water b4 and after sex

Sup Slim..Recently i experience a force of sex from a dude tat look like you. true i was feelin him, wanted it in a gently way. He big dicked. I told him cause this new to me. It hurts.. He told me he like it to see me buckle underneath him. He wears the dog out of me..Much lata it does feel good. I tried hard to hide from him..i should i handle this. I am 5'4 145 he is 6'0 200lbs muscular so iam little neverous.

SLIM RESPONDS:sex aint supposed to feel good later only..its supposed to feel good during, as well..there are ways to ACT out forceful sex, but both parties gotta be willing participants. If u let him know how it feels and he doesnt at least tyr to compromise then get away from him qwikly shawty..it can fuk up ya insides..that can cause lots of problems in the long run

Im Lukn 4 a Niqqa...Dnt Lik Fems...Its Hard To Find a Niqqa Cusz Everbody On Da DL...Im Atracted To a Str8 Niqqa...What Do I Do?

SLIM RESPONDS:Honestly, im gettin sooo sick of everybody overlooking soft/fem guys. Let's be serious..femininity can be covered up n public. Cause it seems thas all a lotta so calld masc guys are doin anyway..Srry..i rather have a guy who i already know if soft behind closed doors than a guy who appears to b masc but really aint. DL means they are ACTING! By its own definition these guy have to act a certain way to not b found out..i respects DL dudes cause its their rite to be how the want..but if over-lookng fem dudes to b with masc dudes is the way to go...then y arent those relationships working..jus read thru my column..so many peeps lookn for masc/dl..yet so little talk bout them finding a good relationship with them..hmmmm makes u wonder

Hey slim so I just turned 20 and finally feel like I can explore a side of me I haven't. I've always been wit the ladies and I have no complaints but I have this curiousity about doods. One of my girlfriends is bi and last week we went out to a gay club in la. I went because I was curious to c wat it was about. I've NEVER done anything wit a guy but that night I had the guts to hook up and go down on this fine black man. The only thing is that I did this behind my friends back and none of them know . The guy I hooked up with said I was amazing and keeps txting about how much he likes me and needs to c me. The only thing is he txt me constantly and I dnt think I'm ready for anything wit a guy. He wants to b my first but I dnt know if that wat I really want do u have any advice??

SLIM RESPONDS:if u already expalined this situation to the guy and he keeps texting..jus change ya #. most likely he will not stop. U r wats considered "fresh meat" and everyguy knows..u dont let fresh meat get away..trust me son..change ya # will b less of a hassle than dealing with a guy who got amazing head from the freshly new bi guy

iight so my lil bros homeboy always cummin thru to drink and smoke wit me but always makes sure im alone he know i fuk wit dudes and aint got a problem wit it and every time we talkin bout something he will find a way to say no homo yet hes always sittin damn near on my lap how should i approach him?

SLIM RESPONDS:1st talk with ya lil bro bout it..i he knows bout u, jus to make sure he'ss n the loop. the last thing u wanna do i make a pass at his homie..and his homie (who probably does wanna fuk wid u) goes n tell him to protect his self. 2nd, find a way to incorporate saying "No DL" in your conversations..that shud b fun..have on ball short and try being hard/semi-hard..when he comes over..watch hoow he reacts

Slim, i got a homie that i hangout and get fucked up with on the regular. He doesnt know that i get down and i dont think he does either but the muthafucka is so fine and im so attracted to him, man what do i do?

SLIM RESPONDS:LOL..the search for a masc man is pushing peeps to make bad decisions i c..If u truly enjoy your friendship jus let itt b..if u willing to risk it to find out..jus get fuckd up and tel him straight up..u not comin on to him but if yall gon hang..then he needs to know the person he's hangin wid..

Wazzup Slim? Luv ur movies. I was wonderin, What's sumthin ur fans would b surprised 2 kno abt you?

SLIM RESPONDS:heye sup..thx homie..I think my fans wud be surprised to know that contrary to my movies..i really dont like sex anymore..i do it cause im good at it and luv makin dudes nut out their ass. But it has been like a plague to my relationships..sumtimes being the only good consistent thing i share wit my partner. Surprised?

Hey Slim. I'm a top, but lately I've been curious about bottoming. My boyfriend is MAD sexy, and he's the only one I've ever considered bottoming for. Now, I'm a pretty good top (w/ a pretty big dick), so I never felt the need to bottom. My boyfriend is versatile, so I've been wondering more and more how it might feel. Now, I know you're a top [and a good one ;)] but I was just wondering what you thought. Should I keep doing my thing as a top, or am I just being a scaredy-cat?

SLIM RESPONDS:Go for it!! Get your grown man on! It may even take your relationship to the next level Jus make it a special occasion typa thing (bday or holiday) so that way if u dont like it..u can say u tried it for that day only..either way, im sure your partner will be pleased..n thx for the comp..i luv being a top..if i ever wanted to btm..i could do it..jus because im grown and i own wat i dosexually.Own your sexuality..DO U..or betta yet..let him do u..lol

Slim I love sucking dick. Theres something about milkin a dudes dick that turns me on. Theres this guy who I met and suck him now on a daily basis. He loves for me to swallow and I love it too but I'm wondering since I swallow it daily is that too much nutt in my system lol. On the flip side I'm scared that if I stop swallowing then it might end it.

SLIM RESPONDS:I mite have to console with Dr. Ruth on this 1 shawty..this is 1 of those decisions thatcan onlybe made by u..in my opinion if u are questionin it, then u probably feel like u shud slow ddown on it. As much as u may love it, if u feel u mite lose him because u take a break, then it becomes less of a love for you and more of a neccessity. At that point, you gotta ask yaself...my health, or his dick, whats more important??

slim Ive been single for a min now 6months to be exact and i want to start dating,looking for a boyfriend. Im far from ugly,got ass for days, ma dress game on point and got ma own for ma age. i go to clubs and try to meet ppl and i havent had sex in a while so im sure im tight lol how can i find a boyfriend dats real and masculan?

SLIM RESPONDS:okay..okay..okay..it seems to be a nationwide shortage of masculine men..maybe they just aren't going to gay clubs. The 1's left out there are probably fed up with the club scene and honestly.i cant blame them. If u play any sports, i suggest joining a team that is gay, or if u dont play..try finding where their game are played and going to a game or 2. If you're as cute as u say u r, then snatching up a player wont b hard for u. Other than that..theres alwayz lesbian clubs. I told sum1 b4..lesbians hang with a lotta guys who dont feel comfortable enough to go to gay clubs. As for a real man..well..the defintion of real varies from person to person..so jus b upfront about everything u looking for in a dude..tell him from the door

I LOVE TO SUCK DICK BUT RECENTLY I'VE BEEN WONDERING Y NOT SWALLOW THE CUM SINCE I DO SUCK DICK IT WOULD'NT HURT WOULD IT SO WHAT WOULD YOU DO???

SLIM RESPONDS:i wouldnt suck it at all..but it aint bout me..when the dick is in your mouth..its YOUR MOUTH..swallow at will..lol p.s. but play safe-learn health risks first then make your own decision.

Well I'm on the DL....what can I use or take 2 enlarge my dick? Is there anythink out there that can be used 2 enlarge my dick?somtime I cum fast what should I do 2 stop?

SLIM RESPONDS:There are a lotta things out there that say they make u bigger..try researching them on the net..find out what products interest u and have the highest rate of enlargement..be careful personally i think a dude shoud put more energy into perfecting his stroke than makin himself bigger. U probably cum too qwik cause your on the dl. So over-anticipate the sex. Your too excited..so come out the closet..lol nah..jus try jerking off a hr b4 u sex a dude..then come out the closet.…

I have been trying to get into the porn business for a while but I don't think they would want a guy like me because my hair is long and I look a lil bit too fem. I mean I have the talents, the looks and a nice body but no one will give me a chance. Do you think its a good ideal to keep trying or leave it alone? Plus I have stalker issue with guys who cant take no for an answer. Do you know any ways to make them back off? I have a 9 and will murk a nig but I cant go to the pen because I will be a prison bitch fa sho... Help! lol :-)

SLIM RESPONDS:The porn is acting out sex..which means you are an actor. So if u not masc in real life then act masc..believe me son (a lot of pornstarz do). fresh braids and a fitted is the look that works best on fem dudes wit long hair. ya gear shud b hood, stay away from trendy if u sendn pics to producer to get n the biz. And how do u have stalker issues..wit more than 1 dude..lol what u doin to these niggaz shawty??lmao..dont shoot nobody son..if its serious then get a restraining order..not like that gon keep force them to stop..but if u already (legally) packn..in the worst case scenario..u got sum documentation that u tried to legally stop it 1st.

MAN MAN MAN! SLIM BRUH I KNOW THAT THERES PLENTY OF FINE GUYS ON HERE I TRULY LIKE, LIKE JOVONNIE FINE ASS! SHIT I WOULD GIVE HIM THE BLUES! BUT ANYWAY THERES ALOT OF GUYS I LIKE CAUSE IM THE COOL KAT! AND SOME WANT TO FUCK ME YA KNOW IM A BOTTOM! BUT I SOMETIMES THINK THE WEIGHT IS A PROBLEM IM NOT WAT U CALL FAT NEITHER BUT YA KNOW I GUESS THESE NIGGAS FEEL LIKE JUST CAUSE U GOT SOME WEIGHT THAT UR FEM BUT IM WAY TO FAR FRM THAT SHIT! I CAN PULL ANY DUDE I WANT BUT YA KNOW WAT CAN I DO TO BETTER MY SITUATION! CAUSE THE ASS AND MOUTH IS DA TRUTH!

SLIM RESPONDS:1st u got to put down the blunt b4 u send me a question homie..lol I dont get what u sayin..u said u can pull any dude..u said u got sum dudes that wanna fuck u, u not fem and u said ya ass is mouth are the truth. I have neva heard any1 say being thick or fat relates to bein fem. Sounds like the only 1 wit the real issue about your weight is you son. If thas the case, jus join a gym and go at your own pace..since u said you not fat, then u shud see results n no time. And if ther are dudes n the world who think a lil weight makes u fem..y would u wanna "better" your situation for them anyway..rite?

My question is not as intelligent as the others on here, but here it goes - it's been a year since the untimely passing of my ex-boyfriend on Christmas Day of 2008 (his ex-boyfriend, who's a gangsta, shot him 3 times when he was on his way to my apartment, and he ended up getting the death penalty). I've moved on since then, but I have no interest in dating anyone at all, let alone looking for a relationship, booty calls, one-night stands and various sex partners (all of which are NOT me at all, because I have too much self-respect for those). Now there's a bisexual guy who lives in the same apartment building I'm in and he's on the downlow (his girlfriend doesn't even know about his affairs with other guys, and she's been hurt and cheated on before). He's always giving me hints and clues on coming to his apartment and I know what he wants, but as the group En Vogue once said, "No you're never gonna get it! Never, never gonna get it." I keep telling him to leave me alone, but he's not gonna give up. How can I get through to him permanently? And should I let his girlfriend know about his discreet side? (his girlfriend is my best friend and we both work for the same employer).

SLIM RESPONDS:Tell him what u jus told me..the next time she's not around and he is, u need to tell him what happend to your ex and how it changed ya life. Let him know the respect you have for his girl and more importantly for yourself, wont eva have sex with him. U cant be passive when u reject dudes like him..they're prowlers and prey on peeps they think r week. To him u are a faggot..and cause faggots like dick..no matter what u say even tho u r friends and co-worker to his girl..he thinks u will still let him fuk or at least suk his dick cause he on the low and faggots luv dl dudes. I know that sounded ruff but maybe now that u know what he's think'n..u can man up and really put an end to it, cause u aint a faggot...

got two questions: What was it like hooking up with Berlin? And, are there any men in the biz that you'd like to hook up with?

SLIM RESPONDS:workin with BERLIN was a challenge. He was very tite and way bigger (bodywise) than me. It took a lot to get him open, but was worth it..the sexual chemistry mad for a good shoot..n the face that the viewers neva saw it comin was a plus. Wud luv to start doin sum S&M shoots wit white twink models

not advice, just respect. u know there are few real tops left on earth, sorry thats just my observation, so this guy gets my respect on screen all the time. and now he provides wise counsel? that's a dream. a good dick with a good brain on it.

SLIM RESPONDS:thx for the luv homie..from sex to love, every typa relationship starts with communication..so i enjoy using my brain jus as much as my dick.

i wanna get double dickd but im scarred my hole mite not close up and i dont wanna have the reputation of havin a loose booty..lol What do u reccomend, do it, or not?

SLIM RESPONDS:JUS DO IT!!! I dont think u shud do it on the reg. tho..but i dont think satifying ya fantasy once, will mess up ya play. After you do it..take a hot bath..squeez fresh lemon juice in it and epson salt. U need to record it too shawty..send me a copy here

My lover is sleeping around with a female and doesnt consider it cheating..its killing me cause every time i express how it feels..he jus plays it off as nuthing cause he jus fuking them and they;re female and im a dude..i really love him but it hurts..i dont know what to do.

SLIM RESPONDS:Srry to say homie but u gotta give him an ultimatum..he's no longer the 1 hurting you, u are. The longer you allow him to fuck sum1 else (cause male or female..its still sum1 else) the more u hurt yaslef. Get closure on whether it can b a monogamous relationship or nuthn at all… p.s. nuthn at all mite hurt but what u already have is next to nuthn anywayz, when u think about it??

Slim do u find it hard for guys to trust u since u do porn or is it the other way around and u dont trust guys?

SLIM RESPONDS:Actuallly guys do have a hard time trusting me, and unfortanately i dont have the patience to prove myself. I am who i am upfront..people say trust is earned..but i dont believe dat son..i think trust shud be given as a courtesy, wether it grows stronger or depreciates depends on the person u give it to.

Slim, im n the porn industry 2, and i met sum1 i think i love but i havent told them i do porn..what sud i do and do u prefer being slingle or in a relationship while u do porn..

SLIM RESPONDS:1st son, if u like him u need to tell him as soon as possible so u can know where u stand b4 it gets and deeper..as for being in a relationship while doinporn..i still believe love is personal and its rules change from person to person..but i wouldnt recommend it. In essence what a person agrees to in the beginning of a relation can change when feeling grow..and shit will gt crazy..but follow your heart at the end of the day..Love is your right..be fearless wid it...SLIM

I want to know how do u get guys to like u that u talk to on the Internet and how do u open up tight ass

SLIM RESPONDS:sup homie..i jus answered that for sum1 else..theres a product called ANAL EASE. It numb the asshole so it ready for more poundind..also taking a hot bath afteer getn fuked instaed of showering, relaxes the muscles n the ass so if not as sore

sup slim i masterbate just like any other dude but sometimes get tired of using my hands. have u ever tried one of those anal fleshlights and if so are they as good as advertised?

SLIM RESPONDS:i have tried it..its scary lookn and i dont really rock with sex being mechanical..there are dudes all over the net who jus like to jerk off..try joinin a group, i hear it hot as hell and they get it in with the creativity in jerkin da dick

Hey man i've been with girls most of my life just turned twenty five can't help thinking about guys and the things i won't to do to them. i like girls but i love guys. i just wanna grab the first guy i see and you know.... help me man because my fantasy are eating me up…

SLIM RESPONDS:if u are over 21 son..wtf are you waiting for?? the beauty of being grown is you get to indulge in some fantasies..you betta get sum manluv quick,,you sound like you on the verge breakdown..give ya hand a break..try an escort, for a 1 nite no attachment experience..then u decide if u wanna go further

Yo Slim...you make a nigga's dick hard as a brick. You are sexy and i wanna have ya babies...lol. You have a brother?

SLIM RESPONDS:thx homie..yea i got a couple sexy brothers..holla at me lol

Yo I really like this dude a lot but we met online. When we met in person the first day we had oral sex and he drank my cum. After for a couple weeks he became real clingy. At first I liked that he was on it but then I told him that it was becoming uncomfortable and he backed off a lot. I know I hurt his feelings and I have apologized but now its been a reversal and I feel like now I'm coming on strong. I can tell he enjoys me constantly calling and all that. I tried meeting other dudes to get my mind off him. It didn't work no other dudes out here are on his level. I think he may be the one yo. What should I do?

SLIM RESPONDS:you sound like you are interested in the guy more now outta pity. You know u hurt his feelings now u wanna make it up to him..if thas the case then jus relax your approach and let things happpen more naturally..if you are genuinely feeling him, then understand you have to stick in there til u win him over..his guard is up to protect his heart..u gotta prove, u wont hurt it again..ps.. if he drank your cum, he's carrying your babies..he's supposed to b more clingy..lol

Whats good Slim? Im a DL dude who tryin to find a good dude to kick it wit. Im masculine and very discreet and find it very hard to find another masculine dude. I've tryed online dating but no luck and we have a hand full of gay clubs here and that not an option. Yo help a bro out what should I do?

SLIM RESPONDS:Lesbian Clubs are the answer..it the best kept secret oon where to find more masc gay dudes..a lotta girls have dl and gay male friends who party with them cause they dont like the guy clubs..if that dont work..straight club bathrooms are the other the meeting places. Jus be careful..

SO I BEEN WIT THIS CAT FOR A MIN. BUT THE SEX IS WACK. I'M BORED OUT OF MY MIND WIT THIS DUDE BUT I'M NOT IN THE PLACE WHERE I CAN JUST UP AND LEAVE . HE'S NOSEY AS HELL AND I REALLY DONT WANNA GO OUT AND FUCC WIT SOME ONE AND GET CAUGHT. I'M SEXY AS FUCC GOT DICK AND READY TO BOUNCE WAT SHOULD I DO IN THE MEAN TIME TO KEEP ME FROM SPAZZ'N ON THIS DUDE AND FUCKN MY SITUATION UP?

SLIM RESPONDS:pimpn aint eva easy homie..real rap,.u gotta be dedicated to the game if u gon play it. If you dont like ya situation..make plans to change it 1st. Set sum realistic dates to leave son..stack ya paper and get ya own. All the good ass will still be around, but trust son, i been fuckin for a minute..and i aint ran across an ass yet, worth fucking up mymliving situation..ya situation aint unique..and they ALL end up bad when u fuck sum1 else

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