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Michael J from Baton Rouge LA wants to know....

What's up slim I just wanted you to know that your my favorite top because you know how to make freaky love to bottoms. Sometimes when I'm watching your vids I fantasize about eating your chocolate booty all day because I have a fetish for it. My question is how does you and another bottom end up working together?? Does the director pick a bottom for you to fuck? Or is it up to you to pick who you want to pick to fuck on camera based on sexual attraction?

SLIM RESPONDS:LOL..yo Mike if i have to hear 1 mo fantasy about my booty, im start doing "scat videos" to turn yal down..then again, some would prob like that too..lol As for the bottoms i fuck, it depends..Normally i use sum1 that i know would be great on film, or my director will send me pics of models they know i'll be great with

Tingaling from Fort Lauderdale FL wants to know....

Yo Slim, thank you for giving real world advice to men, I enjoy reading your article. Im in love with a bottom that i'm trying to keep in the house. I think he is real hot and want to knock his pussy out when we have sex, put a good impression on him, fuck him like he has never been fucked. Thing is I don't usually get the reaction I want, its like I'm banging out pussy, sweating all over the sweet bitch and he just looking back at me like meh nuttin nah gwaan. He told me he likes big dicks when were dating -thing is I didn't ask him if that is why he likes me or if that is a warning that he might go for another guy with a bigger dick. I just keep thinking about the big dicks he has had and that mine aint big enough. I know a big dick matters much to him because he told me. Are there tricks I can use to shorten his ass make my dick feel bigger in him..i want his pussy done and need rest until the next time we fuck.

SLIM RESPONDS:Woooo Tingaling..u have givien me a great laugh homie. thx for the compliment, I enjoy writing them as much as u enjoy reading them. There are a few remedies if this is truly the 1 u want. 1-get an over-sized huge dildo. After u have fucked him and got him open, start playing wit his pussy with it while u still fuckin. Because is it way too big for both of u to fit, this will become a personal challenge to a power bottom..and months n months of inventive sex til the task is completed. Also contrary to tops thinking banging the pussy up is the maximum deep stroke, but when u are with a power bottom, they can develop rhythm that allows banging to become easy work. What u wanna do is slow stroke (must be brick for this to wrk) all the way in and all the way out. Super slow, sometimes when u in, rock ya whole body deeper, like u tryna fuck thru shawty. Soon as he seems to have developed a rhythm, throw a quick jub up in the pussy, then switch the speed of the slow stroke..SLIMTHUG APPROVED STROKE.

Jay Adams from Los Angeles wants to know....

Slim I love the way you answer questions from your fans, you seem to have all of the answers. But one question I have might need Dr. Phil to answer the question. Why do I like the "bad" boy types. The guy with no job and a big dick I will roll over for, but the nice guy with a job just bores me to death. I just don't understand it why I am attracked to losers like these guys I have been with. I think I am afraid to really commit to a guy because I grew up in an extremely religious home where Homosexuality was taught to be "unnatural" and sinful. I am in my late 40s and successful career wise and I just have a problem really settling down. Deep down I think God will punish me for practicing homosexuality. What do you think Dr. Slimthug?

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Arthur from Newark wants to know....

Sup Slim: my question how do you know you found Mr. Right, I’ve been talking to this dude for 6years know he is Dl, i dont think it will ever be officially but he always does the relationship things when we are togethers, very affectionate i get very confused at times- he doesn’t use the word gay so he is considered straight still help me.

SLIM RESPONDS:Wsup Arthur..so u think u found Mr. Right. Well i cant agree or disagree..that judgement is a personal one. What I can say is a relationship with a DL dude NEVER lasts. It is meant to be temporary cause the very basis of its survival is deceit. He lies to everyone around he that he loves..y would u be different? He is not straight, lets be clear about that. Asking have u found Mr. Right, and then in the next sentence saying "i dont think it ill ever be official" speaks magnitudes..Stop only listening to yourself when u ask questions..Listen to yaself when u answer them.

NakedInDetroit from Detroit wants to know....

SlimThug, let me first say that you are one of the BEST in the industry. However, I would like to know why it is that you and other Black porn actors have this habit of keeping your socks on when fucking? YOU and many others have really nice looking feet and some of us, as homosexual males, feel that the entire male anatomy is sexy - feet and ALL !!! By the way, I really liked the way you got into Rico's feet when you did a film with him.

SLIM RESPONDS:Sup nakdndtroit, Well the answer to ya question is simple..I hate feet..absolutely HATE them! 2nd, I have a sock fetish..love socks..so its better to have all the extra aphrodisiacs u can when u are performing in front of a camera, usually with sum1 u dont know. That scene with Rico was purely a compromise for my fans..not to mention, i dont think any feet are attractive but on the scale of nice feet, Rico would be among the top of the list

Kidd from Texas wants to know....

Ok here is the thing.... My ideal desire for a man is to have someone who is taller than 5'10, built, some tats, nice size dick (nothing less than 8), doing something with his life, and has that kinda of thug mentality to where i cant walk all over him. I just a real man. I am the submissive one, but im not a punk/bitch/ fem whatever, but I just want a man who acts like a man, who watches sports on tv or plays a sport, a man who can fix on a car, man handle me when i need to shut up, someone i can look up to and be happy. Someone i can bring to my older brother who is not so fond of the gay community. I guess my question is how do you find someone like that, like i have somebody i been with for a year now but like he is everything i did not describe. I mean im an independent 21 year dude who has his stuff together and on a great route to my future career. Im just looking for love and communication, im not all flashy with being showered with gifts or a man being there hand and foot, i can take care of myself. I like men but im usually surrounded by str8 ppl. im usually the only gay person in my friend group and im ok with that, i was never really apart of the gay community. Is the type of man i want out there, and if it is, can someone show me cause i think i looked in the wrong places, i attract too many dl niggas and i been let down everytime. i need something stable. im looking for a person to build something with, im not for the 3 month relationship, i want years. i guess im asking alot, but you seem to give good advice from what i read, so i wanted to get another's opinion of what should i do.…

SLIM RESPONDS:Aww Kid, u looking for love in all the wrong places..lol This idea of "thug mentality" being the ideal mate for a relationship is misguided as hell. It has led to countless broken hearts for 100s of yrs and still kicking. I advise going another route. Look up gay athletic leagues..(basketball, football etc) Go to some games. Upgrade the quality of man u are looking for. This aint a diss to thugs but u dont have to be a thug to not let sum1 run all over you. You can find a educated masc dude with values and interests in success. I get that u like an edge but honestly if u lookn for love at 21, keep in mind you are in the age range when you are finalizing the definition of love and still learning to apply it correctly to yourself (expect lessons over longevity and appreciate growth while u search. You dont EVER find love and it doesnt find you..Love meets it's counterpart when it is destined to..not a second b4 or after…

Deon Long from Detroit wants to know....

Hi I'm a little over weight and I REALLY want to start dating muscular guys. The problem is that most muscular guys are only into slim guys. Well my question is how can i get people to see past my weight? Why does the gay community dislike bigger dudes?

SLIM RESPONDS:Deon homie..what I'm about to say will be a hard reality and i hope i dont lose u as a fan.. but the idea of a overweight person only looking to date "Muscular" men but then complaining that guys dont see past your weight is hypocritical. U are the problem u speak of. If u aren't interested in dating an overweight person, then either lose weight to become the idea of what u believe (muscle) guys want, or respect your own wishes and be the example of dating equality u desire. Date someone OVERWEIGHT!

Tyrell wants to know....

Hiiii. SO like I’m a bottom, and every "thug" nigga I see , they all claim they can handle me. TBH .I love a thug nigga who can put my ass in check when needed, but when i snap on em, they just bounce, then we get back in the bedroom n all is well. like ! I NEED ME A REAL THUG. Help me :(( lol

SLIM RESPONDS:Tyrell, the type of thug u are looking for doesnt exist in our community. There will always be an element of make-believe cause GAY and THUG, is the same as OIL and WATER. You can bottle the 2 together but they dont mix. The whole idea of mending the 2 came from fantasies of gay men wishing their men were more like corner boys. If u looking for a reaction from a real thug when u get outta line, then go to jail and smack the toughest dude u see..

Wardell from Brooklyn, NY wants to know....

What up slim. I've done a film with DP before a few years back and I am considering doing more. This is the issue I am a very private person in my private life and additionally I am a student and a professional as well. My concern is the impact of my doing more films having and impact on my career. I see more and more people working in the industry however I still have other career ambitions that are important. Is it possible to have a solid career and relationship after porn?

SLIM RESPONDS:The sky is the limit Wardell and porn aint necessarily the dark cloud. Look at Kim Kardashian lol.. anything is possible and to tell u the truth. The biggest flaw (to me) in porns aftermath, is the fact that everyone, DL and in the closet, who watches porn will now know for sure..U ARE A homo

Nik J from Chicago, IL wants to know....

Hey Slim, I first off wanted to say that you are a very handsome guy to me ;-) I have three questions. My first questions is, Whats with this stereotype about every guy wants a "masculine" guy when every guy physiologically has some feminine characteristics about them weather they act on it or not? I'm a 20 year old college student at Illinois State University and I have a hard time finding someone to hookup with because guys on campus are so "DL", but yet I've heard things about some alphas, kappas and sigmas on campus saying that they would like to fuck the shit out of me because I have a PHAT Ass. Should I find out where these sayings are coming from? My third question is I'm a very educated individual and I want a real relationship, where I can spoil someone, cook for them, go out on dates, travel and know that we really have love for each other. So why do guys look at me like another piece of ass and not for who I am?

SLIM RESPONDS:waddup Nik J. Thank u for ya compliment homie. U sound a lil cray tho..wondering if u should find out bout the dudes saying they would fuk the shit outta ya fat ass..but then saying u really want a real relationship..lmao I wont debate the psych over fem and masc..i will say until u act on something, you havent done it. So having fem characteristics but never displaying them i would guess thats masc. Face a real question, then just like u do in school..research, plan and implement the type of relationship u really want..(do u want a hook-up or not) If u search for those frats that want u for your ass..u see yourself the same way they do..so dont complain

Quez from Atlanta, GA wants to know....

First off I wanted to say the advice you give is some of the realist shit ive heard and helpful. Second my fantasy is a thug tht cn put in work on this pussy bt everytime i gt with one they say im too honest. Any suggestions?

SLIM RESPONDS:thx a lot Quez..Wsuup i don't know what kinda thugs u meeting..but if they running from honesty then maybe they doing you a favor..lol try going to sporting events..just make an abnormal amount of trips to the bathroom..time to broaden your search

Lil Mississippi from Greenwood, MS wants to know....

I am a dl dude but i dont want just any dude i want a nigga from dawgpound, do you think its possible to hook up wit somebody from dawgpound or is it just a fantasy that I desire.

SLIM RESPONDS:sup lilmississipi..i think i already answered that for u..but anything is possible..if u are a member, just contact the webmaster with your request..maybe they can assist you..iite..cool

John from Johannesburg, ZA wants to know....

Slim i really would like to hook up with of these dudes i see in dpusa. would want one to fly and meet in Johannesburg, South Africa, at my expense, please make it happen......this is rather private if you can reply to my email address.

SLIM RESPONDS:waddup John..if u are a member of dp, u can address this request to the webmaster directly. They can better assist you with that.Good luck buddy

Jay from Los Angeles, CA wants to know....

Slim thug was wondering what do you think about brothers rimming? I think that is just disgusting and unsafe. Also can a guy rupture another guys butt if he fucks him too hard?

SLIM RESPONDS:Heyy Jay, i luv luv luuuuuv eatn da pussi up..i mean when i wake up…i wanna eat da pussi, when i get dressed..i wanna eat da pussi, when i tie my shoes, ha (n my preacher voice now)…u don't knoooooow, ha, like i know, ha, how i likes to eat da pussi..ha, lemme say it one mo time, i said..youuuuuuuuuuu don't knooooooo, ha, how i likes to eat da pussi. U say disgusting but i say delightful, ha..u say unsafe..but i say just taste..ha lol / and as to the rupture another guys butt question..Jay cut it out..anything that can happen to a females ass while taking dick can happen to a dudes..an ass is an ass is an ass..ASS…

Lilbadass from Albany, GA wants to know....

hey slim my name is shaad. im currently trying to become a pornstar for the reason that when i wanted love it was no where to be found. but now that i just want sex it got easier. but i rather for it to be with ppl that i kno 100% clean. so if there an email or something i can hit you up so you can tell me the correct way of going about this.

SLIM RESPONDS:wsup lilbadass..u don't become a pornstar cause u couldn't find love..my gawd..what are you smoking in Albany. You mite wanna try and hang in there..love is worth the wait when its right..porn is taboo..so make sure u tried ya hardest at "love "b4 u introduce your "sex" to the world shawty..and as for 100% clean..unless u go to the doctor with your partner and sit in the room with him for his results, u will never truly know that..jus keep it real

Arkamien from Brooklyn, NY wants to know....

How can a man like my self become good like you in porn and how long did it take?

SLIM RESPONDS:thxxx for compliment..fortunately i was always talented at fucking.. so thats where it all starts..if u can't fuck, you can't be successful in porn. i listen to the body of my partner when performing. The longer u do porn..u become a better PERFORMER..that doesn't necessarily mean better at sex..that means Better at how you make the scene look..as for the sex, unless u losing ya virgintiy…u should already know how to put it down b4 u sign on

Blake from Pensacola, FL wants to know....

do you ever have personal appr3ences and would you ever do a bachlor party and fuck the groom?

SLIM RESPONDS:Hey Blake, If u are marrying (CONGRATS) and i have made a few personal appearances, but not to fuck a groom..lol could be hot tho..just be advised " i love money, but if there if no slight attraction, my dick won't get brick..Unfortunately 'bands don't make me dance..lol

R from Texas wants to know....

Wassup Slim, I'm a btm and it's been a min since I been dick down. I miss out on alot of oppertunity of dick because of fear of meeting these dudes online. My question is how do I overcome my fear? I also have another question if a dude not willing to show face or sent pic u meet online is ok to decline to hook up?

SLIM RESPONDS:Wsup R. Sry its been a minute since u been dicked down..wish i could sling my dick down to Texas and stop the drought..lol Listen, a lil fear is cool, i mean u don't know the person..but just weigh the results of your fear against the hunger of your booty. and when u want dick bad enough..you'll conquer ya fear..I always recommend meeting out public 1st (even for just sex encounters)..dunkin doughnuts (bright lights, and very hot coffee, 'in case a nigga is crazy) lol

Jaquan from New York, NY wants to know....

i been watching your videos how can i have sex with u, i get hard just talking about u last how old u got to be?

SLIM RESPONDS:AWWW Jaquan u wanna do the nasty wit me..lol well u r in Ny and so am i..so…who knowsIf u are cute in the face and thin in the waist, i mite make u walk bow-legged for a day?? and i assume u r asking how old u got to be to do porn?? 18..

Emory from Cleveland OH wants to know....

heyy Slim ...alright heres the deal..im a 29 year old light skin bottom who is looking for a relationship...my question for you is...how do you try to holla at dude? its always been a little tricky for me cause im slightly on the fem side... but if im feeling the dude what should i start off wit?

SLIM RESPONDS:Wsup Emory..it has been tricky for fem dudes every since "dl'" has has become the new "gay". Just Hang in there and flirt a lil.. don't have any expectations when u do. If you are truly fem, then the ideal guyfor you will find and court you..not the other way around…that's not ladylike..loll

Mike from New Jersey wants to know....

i like watching gay porn but i dont wanna fuck or get fucked by a man so my question to is, is this a fetish or am i almost gay?

SLIM RESPONDS:Mike from jerz..what it do homie. I must say..this is an interesting question and a 1st. But i would say u r just a freak. What you watch doesnt determine what you are. For instance, lately i have been watching FemDom. Which is a kind of porn where females strap on dildos and fuck their straight boyfriends..that doesnt mean i want it done to me. Until u desire to perform those acts u are watching on another guy..u are just a freak Mike..cheer up, u are safe for now..lol

Hotel from Brooklyn, NY wants to know....

What's good Slimthug, lemme just say I'm a huge fan and I have and bought all your video's. Here's my question to you. I recently meet a famous adult star I have been watching for almost as long as you. We chilled at his crib but I was so nervous and out of my character that I acted and said things that I'm pretty sure turned him off about me, although I'm not trying to get with dude or anything like that or even come off as a groupie I would be like to chill with him on a more regular bases and be a friend but I'm afraid all that might be out the window with how weird I was acting. Is there anyway to save myself from the image I have painted and start over with this older more mature dude that I think will help me mature as well.

SLIM RESPONDS:Hotel from BK..Big ups..ok ok ok..i hear this often. I appreciate that u acknowledge your mistake is being a fan over a friend. U can easily become infatuated with the situation and say silly things. Happens all the time. Just alert him to the misunderstanding..and apologize. Usually when then situations happen we never get apologies. So i believe it is a starting point

Dre from Nashville, TN wants to know....

im 43 yrs old i want to know can i do porn let me know.

SLIM RESPONDS:Dre..waddup country boi..all the way from Nashville. You are never too old for porn. there is something for everyone in the adult world. What works for 1 audience mite not work for another..but there is ALWAYS an audience waiting..just for you Dre

Shamari from Baltimore, MD wants to know....

Sup Slim I was rapping to this dude homeboi was cool but dropped a bombshell that he does porn.We never had sex but he keeps tryna get at me actually the mf works for papi thugz and you all.What shud I do because I was really feeling him but I think he just want me to bang his back out..

SLIM RESPONDS:Shamari, you are hitting up a pornstar in the midst of being judgmental about another 1..smh. You were feeling him but now because he told u about his porn career, u think he just wants sex..This is y dudes keep secrets from each other..cause soon as u tell the truth, dudes wanna judge u. Well i put it like this my bmore bro..if there is nothing about you more interesting than your sex, then thats all he'll want, despite his career choices of past. If you are a caring, non-judgmental, person with a lot to offer..then offer it, and give it a chance to be received. You're not dating his character, you're dating a person

Brian from Columbus, OH wants to know....

Mr. Slim, I know u get alotta DL ?'s..(here's another) I'm very self-concsious, so how do I go f/ being DL to outta the closet? and 1 more ?...there's a guy @ work who gimme alotta looks like he feelin me or something..am I looking too far into it or is there a possibility he feelin me?

SLIM RESPONDS:Brian..awww im soo proud of you..just buy a tee shirt that says..im gay n proud..or you can simply find someone gay and love them without restraints

Jerome from Shelby, NC wants to know....

Yo slim ima dl thug im used to turning dudes out but lately i havent been able to every dude i try to fuck seems to be str8 but i've fucked str8 dudes b4 n turned them out n the ones that aint straight wont let me hit no more.

SLIM RESPONDS:Jerome..kick rocks..Im soo fucking sick of yo DL dudes. Yall are the worst thing to homosexuality since straight leg jeans..All this rhetoric about turning guys out..and u wonder y they dont fuck with u now..smh do yourself a fave..go back to straight if u can..we dont want you..apparantly no 1 does..

Kevin from New Orleans, LA wants to know....

When can I get some of that dick that you have... you are sexy as hell... damn i love this site cause all yall is phine as hell

SLIM RESPONDS:Kevin shawty if u fine just holla at me with some pics and info..i need a vacation, and the hotels should be cheap as hell in New Orleans now..( i know..bad humor) but i was gon say, i can make u wet like Katrina...(smh)

Greg from Atlanta, GA wants to know....

19 yr old bro here...i met a 6'5 Jamacian bro about 2 months ago, he is good and treats me like a king, he's 45 yrs old. the only problem is his dick you see the bro has a 12inch dick in the shape of a beer can. I'm in constant pain all the time he only belives in rough sex. Last night he fuck me 3 times so hard and long i passed out. he is the 1st guy to fuck me, other than that he is good to me,but when it comes down to sex he is so mean and hurtful i'm really scared, i tried to get away he slap me and ram his dick in my again. please help.

SLIM RESPONDS:Greg..my lil homie..u are dating your father. To him you are a sex slave. If u have expressed to him you pain and discomfort in sex, and it seems to incite more pain form him, then it is a sick fetish that he has in hurting yoiu sexually. There is a whole genre of older big dick dudes who love to punish twinks. If this is not the situation u agree to be in, then leave him immediately..his dick aint gon get any smaller, and his sex aint gonna get any better..if u r scared and need resources, send your info to me here and make note that you want me to email you directly

Splash from Bronx, NY wants to know....

If you worked in the porn industry before you have a fat ass and big Dick, never really dedicated yourself to it but you got it going on right now and wanna get back in right now what would you do slim thug cause this one has me confused like I've worked for dawgpound w/panther and Red and im in NYC ..like I need sum tlc.. Get bakk at me.

SLIM RESPONDS:Splash from the BX..i wonder how u got that name..hmmmm, lol. If you wanna get back into porn, just do it. The industry is booming with a lotta fearless stars rite now, so if u feel u can add something new and refreshingly different from your 1st time, then by all mean..entertain us baby

Troy from New York wants to know....

When you first started doing porn did you like it?

SLIM RESPONDS:Troy, my fellow NYorker, I have love porn from the begining until now. Tho i still love it, i wish it wasnt so interactive socially. I preferred when porn stars were fantasies and couldnt be easily accessed.

Brant from Memphis, TN wants to know....

Slim, I like your vids!!! I hate being desparate. I have been single for 6 years. How can i get my swag back. How can i get a man that is so fine. But i am so easily shy. How can i approach a gay that i assume is probably gay or bi? How can i break my shy issue.

SLIM RESPONDS:Yo Bryant from Memphis..howdy? U never lose SWAG. If u ever had it, its always there..If u NEVER had it, then you gotta learn step 1. Swag aint never scurred. You see something u like..it shows interest back..you cut the chase and find out, whats popn, if u have swag. If u dont..then write me again..remember ya swag..trust it and step ya game up

Meechii from Southeast, DC wants to know....

Hii, Slimthug Im A Plus Size Male And Its Hard Too Get A Guy I Had A Guy Before But We Broke Up Now Its Like Noone Wants A Plus Size Guy... HELP

SLIM RESPONDS:Sup Meechi, i grew up in SE DC..is it still bad as hell over there..lol Well look Meech, it's like this..either you join online groups for dudes who like plus size guys or you start losing weight. Just know, ultimately, the 1 that is for you is the guy that loves you, no matter what size u are

btrthanchoco8e from Jackson, MS wants to know....

Oddly enuff,I literally jus stumbled onto this out of nowhere lol but anywayssss....my name is dee, im 18, a nympho, gay and yet would still have sex with women but havent got back to it yet lol...being a nympho i have a high sex drive but dont want to just have sex and want a relationship but wonder if that is something I shud bring up cause i thing it just sends the wrong message cause even though i say i dont want to have sex, dudes come at me anyway like that. I have some self control so it doesnt bother me but how i can find someone real like this who doesnt just want to have sex?

SLIM RESPONDS:Dee, lil homie ima tell u this while u r young..keep it for the rest of your life. The only way to get wat u want in life period is to demand it. If u allow the nympho in n to be stronger than your hearts desires then all u will ever be is an object. U r more than your dick or ass but if its all u use..then it will be all that gets used

Reggie from Buffalo, NY wants to know....

can i get a pic of u naked?

SLIM RESPONDS:Reggie bae put the blunt down. lol there are a million pics of me all over dawgpound. Hopefully u are a member..if not, join. And have all the pics of me u want

Dave from Florida wants to know....

how can i get over you ////you are my #1 porm star the #1 and the best ass eat,r around town anything you are in are your picture is on i wanna watch,,love yo peace

SLIM RESPONDS:Awww Dave don't get over me ..I need and appreciate your love. Not to mention a trip to Florida wud be nice..hint hint lol

Papi M from San Diego, CA wants to know....

sup slim, this is Papi M , ilove your movies and saw you do a scene with it looked like some one special to you and you loving in it. so this is my question. i am older as in 50 and i'm thinking i would have found my one by now, but it seems no one wants to be my boo they all wanna be fuck buddies, to include 2 married guys, and 4 gay guys who are in relationships, the sex is gud and when i tell the truth like i just fuck some one 5 min ago then another fuck bud will ask are you tired i can be over to get your second nut. sex is good and i have no problem getting that but at the end of the day i am alone after i send them back to their partner. how do i find my one cause this is getti9ng older then me.

SLIM RESPONDS:Papi M..babe lets be real. U are too scared to even try. That's why u indulge in situations that have attachments. Look Papi, u can't complain about the outcome if the input is effortless. U get older every yr and the window is closing. Finding a partner is just like finding a job. Your resume doesn't qualify you for the position u looking for. Change the way you apply yourself and get what u really want.

Tic 4 Tac from Kentucky wants to know....

What's up slim? I'm a educated black man who has insecurities about my relationship. I have a partner who questions my loyalty on a daily basis and sometimes I question my own. We talk about other guys and how good they look but we've agreed that cheating physically is not an option. We've been living together for a little over a year and communication is an issues. We're both black and pos. How can we continue to keep the spice and great times in our relationship?

SLIM RESPONDS:Tic 4 tac homie u r in a crazy situation that need a qwik intervention. I suggest relationship counseling. Gay men never seem to do that but it can prove to be beneficial and at the least..it proves that u both acknowledge there's a problem and u love each other enuff to try and work thru it 2gether. Lack of trust never gets resolved on its own and can fester into hate on his part and resentment on yours

btrthanchoco8e from Jackson, MS wants to know....

Oddly enuff,I literally jus stumbled onto this out of nowhere lol but anywayssss....my name is dee, im 18, a nympho, gay and yet would still have sex with women but havent got back to it yet lol...being a nympho i have a high sex drive but dont want to just have sex and want a relationship but wonder if that is something I shud bring up cause i thing it just sends the wrong message cause even though i say i dont want to have sex, dudes come at me anyway like that. I have some self control so it doesnt bother me but how i can find someone real like this who doesnt just want to have sex?

SLIM RESPONDS:Dee, lil homie ima tell u this while u r young..keep it for the rest of your life. The only way to get wat u want in life period is to demand it. If u allow the nympho in n to be stronger than your hearts desires then all u will ever be is an object. U r more than your dick or ass but if its all u use..then it will be all that gets used

Reggie from Buffalo, NY wants to know....

can i get a pic of u naked?

SLIM RESPONDS:Reggie bae put the blunt down .lol there are a million pics of me all over dawgpound. Hopefully u are a member..if not, join. And have all the pics of me u want

Dave from Florida wants to know....

how can i get over you ////you are my #1 porm star the #1 and the best ass eat,r around town anything you are in are your picture is on i wanna watch,,love yo peace

SLIM RESPONDS:Awww Dave don't get over me ..I need and appreciate your love. Not to mention a trip to Florida wud be nice..hint hint lol

Papi M from San Diego, CA wants to know....

sup slim, this is Papi M , ilove your movies and saw you do a scene with it looked like some one special to you and you loving in it. so this is my question. i am older as in 50 and i'm thinking i would have found my one by now, but it seems no one wants to be my boo they all wanna be fuck buddies, to include 2 married guys, and 4 gay guys who are in relationships, the sex is gud and when i tell the truth like i just fuck some one 5 min ago then another fuck bud will ask are you tired i can be over to get your second nut. sex is good and i have no problem getting that but at the end of the day i am alone after i send them back to their partner. how do i find my one cause this is getti9ng older then me

SLIM RESPONDS:Papi M..babe lets be real. U are too scared to even try. That's why u indulge in situations that have attachments. Look Papi, u can't complain about the outcome if the input is effortless. U get older every yr and the window is closing. Finding a partner is just like finding a job. Your resume doesn't qualify you for the position u looking for. Change the way you apply yourself and get what u really want.

Tic 4 Tac from Kentucky wants to know....

What's up slim? I'm a educated black man who has insecurities about my relationship. I have a partner who questions my loyalty on a daily basis and sometimes I question my own. We talk about other guys and how good they look but we've agreed that cheating physically is not an option. We've been living together for a little over a year and communication is an issues. We're both black and pos. How can we continue to keep the spice and great times in our relationship?

SLIM RESPONDS:Tic 4 tac homie u r in a crazy situation that need a qwik intervention. I suggest relationship counseling. Gay men never seem to do that but it can prove to be beneficial and at the least..it proves that u both acknowledge there's a problem and u love each other enuff to try and work thru it 2gether. Lack of trust never gets resolved on its own and can fester into hate on his part and resentment on yours

Theo from Miami, FL wants to know....

Yo Slim. Real talk here. I'm a versatile brother and just shy of 8" and bout 6" thick. I'm in my late 30s so I've been around enough and had plenty of ass to have my stroking skills improve. But recently, I met someone in the porn industry and we vibe like hell...mad chemistry. But homie is used to big monster dig muthafukas...how do i compete with that shyt?

SLIM RESPONDS:Waddup Theo..confidence confidence confidence. Your size ain't what makes the sex good, your knowing that nobody in the world ( big or small) fucks like u do. Doubt is disrespect to your dick and he will respond wit mediocre performance. U believe in your dick and he will satisfy, just as he has all these yrs. DICK fucks..brains compare

T from Jacksonville, FL wants to know....

Waz good slim ok do you believe in long distance relationships and also i want to know is how do u know yo dude cheatin on u?

SLIM RESPONDS:Whas good T. I believe people, not distance, make or break a relationship. If he is right or wrong for u, it wouldn't matter if he was next door or overseas. Unless u catch him cheating u just never know. I prefer to create fake accounts and holla at sum1 I'm dating seriously from them. If he hollers back..SHABAM!

Mont from Harrisburg, PA wants to know....

Hey wats up. I keep noticing men staring at me, but not saying anything. Its the look they give me that makes me question there sexuality. I always catch men looking at ma ass (becuz its bigger than your average ass.lol) What should i do? Should i make a move or what. I could b trippin, but some things r just undeniable. Can u help me out?

SLIM RESPONDS:Hey Mont. Next time u think sum1 is chekn out the cakes, smile and wave. Put it out there..don't be afraid to draw them in if u already commanded their attention. Use what u got to get what u want. We are MEN 1st..fear ain't in your vocabulary

Chris from Grenville, NC wants to know....

I have my ex living with me but we still love each other its just he wants to sleep with only females now. How should I handle that after I gave him 3yrs of my time and life?

SLIM RESPONDS:Chris..Chris..Chris ..what the hell are u doing? Are u fuckn crazy or r u into self-torture? If u are completely over him and.out of love then carry on..but u r writing to me so obviously u aren't. Peace of mind STARTS at home. If u don't have it there, you won't have it all day. Get his inconsiderate ass out us house

Kevone from Bridgeport, CT wants to know....

yo slimm wadup slim imma a fan i love you soo much no disrespect i just wanna meet u so txt me call me wuteva. u seem mad chill mad humble i respect that. but my question how come like frens i had in school (job corps) they would let me rub thy dicks they show me on da reg they dik n than out in class or just chillin after school they would act so straight and i would try to grab it and they would run or push me away so now im kinda afraid to approach a dude and it's hard for me cuz i wanna dude like so bad so im just lost!

SLIM RESPONDS:Wsup Kevone..Thx for the love shawty. There are a million other ways to find a man other than secretly grabbing dicks. I suggest the internet if u r looking to date...if u just wanna be a dick grabbing hoe then try sex parties or my favorite, the park after dark.

Jay from Augusta, GA wants to know....

can i have u? lol

SLIM RESPONDS:question is Jay..what ya gon do wit a nigga if you get me?

Tony from Shreveport, LA wants to know....

have u ever fuck with a downlow celeberity guy ? and how can i land one also i want to get in porn to make a little money.

SLIM RESPONDS:Tony I have had a few..you jus go to the club..wait for them to walk in the bathroom..then bash them in the head with a bottle and drag them in the stall. make sure u get ya nut b4 he regains conscience lol

Vern from Georgia wants to know....

Hey Slim i think you are the sexy man i ever seen. I love your advise you offer others. However your techigne of satisfing a bottom is unbelievable. What i would do to encounter an experience to nutt in the ass would be a dream.

SLIM RESPONDS:thx Vern i appreciate it. What i do to make the ass creamy, aint no secret. if u find a dude who talks about ass (like pussy) and making it juicy..more than likely,,he's ya dude

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